Belly Dance: Belly Roll

This belly roll sure plays a huge joke on your dinner.

Playing Facebook games at work

I wonder what is it with today's people who can't stop playing their Facebook games at work. At first, it's funny to see their updates about feeding dogs, cats or even planting or cooking new dishes during working hours. But after a while I began to wonder - I wonder if their employers paid them to play these games at work. As if playing these games is not bad enough, they're using office computers to do so!

Look guys, don't cheat your employers. If you can complain doing things which are not within your jobscope, please remember that playing Facebook games at work is also not within your jobscope. Don't assume your employers doesn't know what you are doing behind that screen :-))

Happy New Year 2012

This wish is 3 days late. This new year is greeted with many news of engagements and upcoming weddings. People seem so happy and jubilant.

(Image: Ffffound)

I hope my year would be filled with more personal achievements (like working out to get fit, job satisfaction). No resolutions for me because it's bound to be forgotten somewhere before mid-year.

Hope all of you will have a great year ahead!

Cat tail communication

Can't get over Bu Bu Jing Xin 《步步惊心》

Ever since I completed watching this series, I am not able to start watching any other series. True! I can't get over the story-line, the characters, the actors who brought life to these characters.

And I love all the 3 themesongs!

I can't get over the fact why Ruoxi (the main character) did not chose 14th Prince when she was betrothed to him??? He has the looks, the stability etc.

14th Prince in modern attire

So handsome, isn't he??

Being randomly Ah-Moi (ed) at

One of the peeves that a lot of girls in Malaysia experience is being randomly called Ah Moi by strangers, especially after being wolf-whistled by those idlers on the streets or just anybody random. Most of the time it is said it in a very demeaning manner with a hint of hamsapness as though all of us girls are PRO or GRO. I hate it when men called me Ah Moi.  I  hate it when people called me Ah Moi when they don't know what it means (especially those who don't speak Chinese and yet use the term), that is why they Ah Moi -ed at girls in demeaning manner. 

The origins of Ah Moi means Little Sister in Hakka dialect. In Chinese, it is probably written as 阿妹. It is supposed to be a term of endearment. 

So if you want to called us girls Ah Moi, Ah Mei or Xiao Mei, at least say it with some respect and dignity.

When on the verge of committing suicide

Can you imagine like suddenly, somebody you knew tried to commit suicide. I couldn't. But it happened.

A neighbour of mine has just broken up with her boyfriend not too long ago. While her family went out of town for the weekend, she stayed back due to work and maybe she thought she could handle the heartbreak. There was one night when I saw her ex-bf entering her house so I thought they have reconciled or something like that. I didn't see when the ex-bf left though.

And then next day my neighbours return from their trip, ahead of schedule. We were wondering about that too.

Then just yesterday, we heard that the poor girl had attempted suicide the night I saw her ex-bf entering her house! I mean, we didn't even know! The poor girl swallowed all kinds of pills in her house, including Chinese herbs. But the funny thing is, she met up a friend after doing so and probably confessed what she has done and thus lead to her being admitted to the hospital and her family's urgent return.

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I mean, girls..when you are thinking of committing suicide over a heartbreak like this, think again! Consider your parents, your family, your friends who still care about you. Your parents who had raised you up, who labor to put food on the table, who looked after your well-being, who made sure you obtain the best education. Compare their labor of 20 odd years and the super short period of time dating your lousy ex-bf.


That guy, does-not-deserve-you-to-die-for-him.


Dear, if people can overcome a terrible divorce or surviving after their partner's death, then it is not impossible to overcome this.

There are so much more to life than to be stuck with someone who doesn't appreciate you.

Keep yourself busy, find new hobbies and maybe go for a holiday. Time will heal, my dear! And who knows, someone better is on his way.

(picture source: Facebook)